1. Good evening and welcome to today’s episode of #adamandeve. Do invite your friends to follow the conversation.
2. Anyone can get married. The goal however should not be to marry but to marry right
3. If marrying right is what you are concerned about then today’s series will be very helpful.
4. Marriage is the most exciting and challenging adventure we can take.
5. Successful relationships and marriage often stretch us.
6. Wrong choice of spouse could be traceable to imbalanced emotional state.
7. Before choosing a spouse, be very clear of your purpose and vision. Your purpose and vision will determine your path in life
8. Your path in life will also determine your choice of spouse.
9. The greatest tragedy of marriage is to be with someone that does not support your vision.
10. An ignored truth about marriage is that love ONLY is not enough
11. Test for future partners: Does our future align? You need to be able to answer that question.
12. Marriage shouldn’t be about giving up one’s entire dreams
13. If you are a musician and two men are asking to date you one is MIKE TYSON and the other is Michael JACKSON.
14. The chances are very high that you will choose MICHAEL JACKSON who is in line with you vision
15. When your vision is similar to that of your partner, you become closer with time. But when it is different, it creates distance
16. It really hurts when your partner does not support your vision and it is a sad position to be in.
17. A wrong choice of marriage partner can mean a long, painful, unfulfilled marriage. In other words, it can mean hell on earth
18. Just because you love someone does not mean you should marry that person, choose in line with your vision, dream and purpose
19. In choosing a spouse, another key factor is TAKING IT EASY.
20. Great decisions are often not made in a hurry, when you hurry into a relationship, you hurry out.
21. Hurried marital decision always comes with UNOBSERVED but detrimental behaviours that put a strain on the marriage
22. Why should you take your time before choosing a spouse? With time character is revealed, with time love is tested
23. With time, hidden motives come to light, with time what you need to know, you will know
24. The regrets of most partners today is “I wish I didn’t rush into this”, “I wish I spent more time knowing him”
25. The tiny things that crumble marriage/relationship become apparent with time
26. When you hurry to choose a spouse, truth is you will never see all that there is to see
27. Time will help bring to notice, what would have gone unnoticed. So please take your time to discover that person
28. That will be all for tonight, thank you for joining in, kindly RT comment and send questions to firstname.lastname@example.org
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Extracted from Pastor Bolaji Idowu’s (@pastorbolaji) #adamandeve series on twitter and I think you should follow him.
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