Secrets of Staying in love (Cont’d)

Pastor Bolaji Idowu

Pastor Bolaji Idowu

Hello friends, welcome to today’s episode of #adamandeve. If this is your first time here, I am happy to have you join in. Do remember to tell friends to follow this handle, RT, comment and join in the conversation.

Last week, we started discussion on “SECRETS OF STAYING IN LOVE” if you missed that episode, here are some excerpts …

Forgiveness is a choice that makes relationship or marriage brand new. To help forgive your spouse, always remind yourself that you also have shortcomings.

Also remember, weak people revenge, strong people forgive. You can read up the rest on my timeline (@pastorbolaji).

To sustain the love in a relationship/marriage, communication is very important. Communication is the lifeline of any relationship. Any relationship, where communication is non-existent is as good as dead.
Great relationships/marriages, are talking relationships/marriages. Enjoyable marriages have in common, good communication.

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Secrets of staying in love.

Welcome to today’s episode of #adamandeve. Today, we will be discussing SECRETS OF STAYING IN LOVE. Do remember to invite your friend to follow the conversation.

Although many do not believe in love, true love is sweet when experienced. Most people dream of marriage where they will live happily ever after but sadly, this is not the case for many. Most relationships and marriages in our world today, are living hell.

It is amazing that most married people wish they were single or never married. The pain of dashed expectations is what most people have to deal with after a failed marriage.

Some people are living together married but in reality, the marriage is dead.

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Let them have #Biafra or at least have a referendum.

Honestly, after much silence on this particular issue, I think with the spate of agitations, wisdom demands that we formally sit with the #Biafrans, listen to their grievances and either reach a compromise or grant them their wishes to go.They have a right to self determination and freedom, a right to chart their own course and a right to be independent, without this tension that is building up and gaining momentum by the day.The agitations will never stop, in my opinion and I honestly hope it will not lead to bloodshed, 5, 10 or 15 generations down the line, if not now.

Generations that won’t know where the whole story started from, who will be told the 1967-1970 civil war was purely genocide and a hatred for their tribe, generations that will scream marginalization and draw up the tribal card every time a national decision doesn’t come their way, generations that know nothing about Continue reading

Fixing relationship commitment issues

Pastor Bolaji Idowu

Pastor Bolaji Idowu

Hello friends, welcome to today’s episode of #adamandeve. Have you or someone you know, ever been afraid to give yourself fully to someone because you were afraid of what might result?

Then you should invite them to follow this handle, join in the conversation on” FIXING COMMITMENT ISSUES”.

A commitment-phobic is a spouse or potential spouse that shies away from taking the next step in a relationship. This person, finds it comfortable being in a relationship where things are not defined.

A commitment-phobic, loves to enjoy benefits of a relationship without attached responsibility.

With a commitment-phobic, one is never sure about the Continue reading

Dealing with an ex.

It’s another day friends! So excited to share with you today on #adamandeve. Welcome.

As usual, I won’t want to do this alone, kindly invite a friend to follow this handle and join in the conversation.
Today, we shall be discussing “DEALING WITH THE “EX” FACTOR”. Although, relating with an ex could seem harmless, it can threaten your current relationship.

Why we keep relating with an ex is a key point to consider.

A key reason is because of real friendship they previously shared. Sometimes, a person could be a “bad partner” but a very good friend, hence, when an ex is a good friend, you find yourself falling back into the friend zone.

Another reason why people keep relating with their ex could be due to sexual attachment. Some men/women are attracted to their ex because of previous ecstatic sexual experiences and they want a replay. Such attachment, to the ex, is focused on meeting each other’s sexual Continue reading