The Heart, The Tongue, The Word… Your Life

Yes-you-can-logo “Keep thy heart with all diligence;” says the good book “for out of it are the issues of life”. (Pro 4:23). The heart is the seat of all thoughts, everything we can ever think of comes from within it. Thoughts about who we are, who we want to become, how we want our lives to turn out etc.  
These thoughts themselves are accumulated over time, usually subliminally, and we hardly ever realize that they mostly shape the direction our lives head and what/who we eventually become.
“A good man out of the Continue reading

Some more reasons why couples are unhappy

fights-in-a-relationship.jpgHello friends, welcome to today’s episode of #adamandeve. Today’s episode is one you don’t want to join alone, do invite your friends to follow the conversation.

Over the past weeks, we have been discussing “WHY COUPLES ARE UNHAPPY“. If you missed the previous episodes, kindly read up on my timeline.

One unpleasant thing that happens to a marriage/relationship is when your spouse doesn’t bring happiness. Most people enter a relationship/marriage with the hope of  having the best times of their lives  with “THE ONE THEY LOVE”, but few years into the relationship/marriage, they are looking for a way out because of unhappiness.

Most relationships & marriages don’t sustain the love and passion they started with.

Your marriage/relationship can be blissful, if only we give more attention to Continue reading

Some Reasons why Couples are Unhappy

unhappy-coupleGood day friends, welcome to another episode of #adamandeve. If you’re just joining us, I am so excited to connect with you. Thank you for following.

Today we will be discussing some reasons WHY COUPLES ARE UNHAPPY.  If you know someone who needs to read this, do invite them to follow the conversation.

It is very common today to find partners that regret their marriage/relationship. Many married people are looking for a way out of their marriage. It seems like “They lived happily ever after” is a fairy tale than reality.

Many marriages/relationship failure is due to inadequate attention. The fear of divorce and heartbreak has kept many away from marriage. Success in relationship/marriage is dependent on the willingness of both partners to make it work.

If a relationship/marriage would work, making it a priority is key. Expecting your relationship/marriage to work out without making an Continue reading

The noise about Biafra and these ignorant 21st century kids


I really don’t like the noise about this Biafra issue. They don’t want to be part of Nigeria, give them Biafra then wait 10-15 years and see if it will be any different.

Some people are sincerely ignorant about the Biafra agenda while those who have a hidden agenda actually look forward to forming a Biafran government to enrich themselves. Whichever way, they have a right to ask.

What I hate is some kid born in the 80s and 90s Continue reading

Attracting a potential spouse and questions when choosing who to marry

Good evening friends, welcome to today episode of #adamandeve. Last week, we started discussing ways to attract a potential mate. If you missed it, kindly read up on my timeline.

To attract a great potential spouse, you must be a great one yourself. The law of attraction states “You attract who you are”. So to attract a better partner, you have to be a better person.

If you continually attract the wrong partner, you need to look inwards. In attracting a potential spouse, you need to have a clearly defined vision. A potential spouse should share or compliment your vision.

Marriage/Relationship should not be a reason to neglect your life vision.

In attracting a potential spouse, it is important to Continue reading

How to attract ‘boo’

Pastor Bolaji Idowu

Pastor Bolaji Idowu

Good day friends, welcome to today’s episode of #adamandeve. If today is your first time joining in, I’m so glad to connect with you.

If you have missed previous episodes, here is a quick recap of what we have been discussing.

Everyone enters into a relationship/marriage with certain expectations. Trouble starts in a relationship/ marriage, where basic needs are not met. Failure of key expectations being met, can lead to the collapse of such relationship /marriage.

A true lover feels happy when their partner is happy.

Today we shall be focusing on “HOW TO ATTRACT BOO”. Do remember to invite your friends to follow the conversation.

50% of relationships/marriage problems can be solved by choosing the right spouse. The same way a bad tree can’t produce good fruits, choosing bad spouse can’t make a Continue reading

Secrets of Staying in love III – (Meeting your partner’s basic needs)

Pastor Bolaji Idowu

Pastor Bolaji Idowu

Good day friends, welcome to today’s episode of #adamandeve. First I want to wish our great country and her people, HAPPY 55th independence. I believe in this nation, God bless NIGERIA.

Today’s episode is not one to miss. Do invite your friends to follow  and join in the conversation.

Just before I delve into the question and answer, A recap of the past three weeks on “SECRETS OF STAYING IN LOVE”

Forgiveness is one of the outstanding factors for lasting relationship. With closeness, there is tendency that your partner will hurt you either intentionally, or not.

Sometimes, forgiveness does not make sense but, it is the only Continue reading