SEVEN (7) WRONG REASONS FOR GETTING MARRIED!

Good day friends, welcome to today’s episode of #adamandeve. Today, we will be discussing “7 WRONG REASONS TO GET MARRIED”.  Do invite your friends to follow the conversation.

Saturdays, tons of ‘owambe’ weddings happen & it seems everyone is in a hurry to “catch the bae” & feature on Bella naija.

It’s February and there’s a major countdown to the “love season” February 14th the frenzy is high. If care is not taken, a lot of single people will come under pressure and depression.

The decision to marry is the biggest decision that most people make in a lifetime, it is safer to make that decision carefully.

Marriage is hard work, but so is divorce. Marriage is a delicate issue. The wrong choice of a spouse can cause an irreparable damage to one’s life.

If you buy a wrong house, car or television set, you can make do with it for a time and after a while, replace it. However when you marry the wrong person, you have made a wrong choice that would last a life time.

WHEN YOU MARRY FOR THE WRONG REASON, YOU MOST LIKELY HAVE MARRIED THE WRONG PERSON.

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IS DIVORCE EVER OKAY?

DivorceGood evening friends, welcome to December! It’s never too late to achieve your dreams, don’t lose hope yet. Today, we shall be addressing a topic many shy away from, but unfortunately, it is a reality these days & staring at us in the face.

You find two people who seem to be in love/inseparable, get married few months, years down the line; they want a DIVORCE! It almost seems normal these days, for couples to be “tired and want out” in a marriage.

Staying married these days almost seems abnormal. This makes me wonder, how did our parents stay married to each other with all the issues/problems they Continue reading

REBOOTING A DYING RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE

Good evening friends, welcome to today’s episode of #adamandeve. Do remember to invite a friend to follow the conversation.

Today, we shall be discussing “REBOOTING A DYING RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE.” Nothing hurts quite like a dying marriage/relationship. There is no loneliness as intense as living with a stranger, especially one that used to be your best friend.

When a relationship/marriage is dying, the prospect of separating appears appealing than staying together. In a dying marriage/relationship, that one person whom you love with your heart has become a roommate than a soul mate. So how did you get here, and are there any ways to get back to the love you once knew?

Firstly, is it normal to feel Continue reading

Some more reasons why couples are unhappy

fights-in-a-relationship.jpgHello friends, welcome to today’s episode of #adamandeve. Today’s episode is one you don’t want to join alone, do invite your friends to follow the conversation.

Over the past weeks, we have been discussing “WHY COUPLES ARE UNHAPPY“. If you missed the previous episodes, kindly read up on my timeline.

One unpleasant thing that happens to a marriage/relationship is when your spouse doesn’t bring happiness. Most people enter a relationship/marriage with the hope of  having the best times of their lives  with “THE ONE THEY LOVE”, but few years into the relationship/marriage, they are looking for a way out because of unhappiness.

Most relationships & marriages don’t sustain the love and passion they started with.

Your marriage/relationship can be blissful, if only we give more attention to Continue reading

Secrets of Staying in love III – (Meeting your partner’s basic needs)

Pastor Bolaji Idowu

Pastor Bolaji Idowu

Good day friends, welcome to today’s episode of #adamandeve. First I want to wish our great country and her people, HAPPY 55th independence. I believe in this nation, God bless NIGERIA.

Today’s episode is not one to miss. Do invite your friends to follow  and join in the conversation.

Just before I delve into the question and answer, A recap of the past three weeks on “SECRETS OF STAYING IN LOVE”

Forgiveness is one of the outstanding factors for lasting relationship. With closeness, there is tendency that your partner will hurt you either intentionally, or not.

Sometimes, forgiveness does not make sense but, it is the only Continue reading

Secrets of Staying in love (Cont’d)

Pastor Bolaji Idowu

Pastor Bolaji Idowu

Hello friends, welcome to today’s episode of #adamandeve. If this is your first time here, I am happy to have you join in. Do remember to tell friends to follow this handle, RT, comment and join in the conversation.

Last week, we started discussion on “SECRETS OF STAYING IN LOVE” if you missed that episode, here are some excerpts …

Forgiveness is a choice that makes relationship or marriage brand new. To help forgive your spouse, always remind yourself that you also have shortcomings.

Also remember, weak people revenge, strong people forgive. You can read up the rest on my timeline (@pastorbolaji).

To sustain the love in a relationship/marriage, communication is very important. Communication is the lifeline of any relationship. Any relationship, where communication is non-existent is as good as dead.
Great relationships/marriages, are talking relationships/marriages. Enjoyable marriages have in common, good communication.

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Secrets of staying in love.

Welcome to today’s episode of #adamandeve. Today, we will be discussing SECRETS OF STAYING IN LOVE. Do remember to invite your friend to follow the conversation.

Although many do not believe in love, true love is sweet when experienced. Most people dream of marriage where they will live happily ever after but sadly, this is not the case for many. Most relationships and marriages in our world today, are living hell.

It is amazing that most married people wish they were single or never married. The pain of dashed expectations is what most people have to deal with after a failed marriage.

Some people are living together married but in reality, the marriage is dead.

If you are going to keep the passion in a relationship or marriage, you are going to Continue reading