SEVEN (7) WRONG REASONS FOR GETTING MARRIED!

Good day friends, welcome to today’s episode of #adamandeve. Today, we will be discussing “7 WRONG REASONS TO GET MARRIED”.  Do invite your friends to follow the conversation.

Saturdays, tons of ‘owambe’ weddings happen & it seems everyone is in a hurry to “catch the bae” & feature on Bella naija.

It’s February and there’s a major countdown to the “love season” February 14th the frenzy is high. If care is not taken, a lot of single people will come under pressure and depression.

The decision to marry is the biggest decision that most people make in a lifetime, it is safer to make that decision carefully.

Marriage is hard work, but so is divorce. Marriage is a delicate issue. The wrong choice of a spouse can cause an irreparable damage to one’s life.

If you buy a wrong house, car or television set, you can make do with it for a time and after a while, replace it. However when you marry the wrong person, you have made a wrong choice that would last a life time.

WHEN YOU MARRY FOR THE WRONG REASON, YOU MOST LIKELY HAVE MARRIED THE WRONG PERSON.

Reason Not to marry 1; Continue reading

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IS DIVORCE EVER OKAY?

DivorceGood evening friends, welcome to December! It’s never too late to achieve your dreams, don’t lose hope yet. Today, we shall be addressing a topic many shy away from, but unfortunately, it is a reality these days & staring at us in the face.

You find two people who seem to be in love/inseparable, get married few months, years down the line; they want a DIVORCE! It almost seems normal these days, for couples to be “tired and want out” in a marriage.

Staying married these days almost seems abnormal. This makes me wonder, how did our parents stay married to each other with all the issues/problems they Continue reading

REBOOTING A DYING RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE

Good evening friends, welcome to today’s episode of #adamandeve. Do remember to invite a friend to follow the conversation.

Today, we shall be discussing “REBOOTING A DYING RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE.” Nothing hurts quite like a dying marriage/relationship. There is no loneliness as intense as living with a stranger, especially one that used to be your best friend.

When a relationship/marriage is dying, the prospect of separating appears appealing than staying together. In a dying marriage/relationship, that one person whom you love with your heart has become a roommate than a soul mate. So how did you get here, and are there any ways to get back to the love you once knew?

Firstly, is it normal to feel Continue reading

High Maintenance Relationship/Marriage

High-maintenanceGood day friends, welcome to today’s episode of #adamandeve. I always look forward to connecting with you on this series, which I believe has been of great help to marriages/relationships. Thank you for taking out time to follow this series, sending in questions. God bless you all.

If today is your first time of joining this conversation, you are welcome. Today, we shall be discussing the topic; HIGH MAINTENANCE RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE. As usual, we won’t do this alone, do invite your friends to follow this handle and join in the conversation.

Just recently, I was driving my SUV and the “maintenance” light went on. Not knowing exactly what “maintenance” needed to be done, my Continue reading

Some more reasons why couples are unhappy

fights-in-a-relationship.jpgHello friends, welcome to today’s episode of #adamandeve. Today’s episode is one you don’t want to join alone, do invite your friends to follow the conversation.

Over the past weeks, we have been discussing “WHY COUPLES ARE UNHAPPY“. If you missed the previous episodes, kindly read up on my timeline.

One unpleasant thing that happens to a marriage/relationship is when your spouse doesn’t bring happiness. Most people enter a relationship/marriage with the hope of  having the best times of their lives  with “THE ONE THEY LOVE”, but few years into the relationship/marriage, they are looking for a way out because of unhappiness.

Most relationships & marriages don’t sustain the love and passion they started with.

Your marriage/relationship can be blissful, if only we give more attention to Continue reading

Some Reasons why Couples are Unhappy

unhappy-coupleGood day friends, welcome to another episode of #adamandeve. If you’re just joining us, I am so excited to connect with you. Thank you for following.

Today we will be discussing some reasons WHY COUPLES ARE UNHAPPY.  If you know someone who needs to read this, do invite them to follow the conversation.

It is very common today to find partners that regret their marriage/relationship. Many married people are looking for a way out of their marriage. It seems like “They lived happily ever after” is a fairy tale than reality.

Many marriages/relationship failure is due to inadequate attention. The fear of divorce and heartbreak has kept many away from marriage. Success in relationship/marriage is dependent on the willingness of both partners to make it work.

If a relationship/marriage would work, making it a priority is key. Expecting your relationship/marriage to work out without making an Continue reading

Attracting a potential spouse and questions when choosing who to marry

Good evening friends, welcome to today episode of #adamandeve. Last week, we started discussing ways to attract a potential mate. If you missed it, kindly read up on my timeline.

To attract a great potential spouse, you must be a great one yourself. The law of attraction states “You attract who you are”. So to attract a better partner, you have to be a better person.

If you continually attract the wrong partner, you need to look inwards. In attracting a potential spouse, you need to have a clearly defined vision. A potential spouse should share or compliment your vision.

Marriage/Relationship should not be a reason to neglect your life vision.

In attracting a potential spouse, it is important to Continue reading